“Forgiveness vs Second Chance”

Forgiveness

-       Is a choice to accept the person’s mistake that they did to you.

-       Is a sign of love and freedom to give the second chance that you believed in yourself that he or she deserves it.

-       Is the first step in moving on before acceptance.

-       Is the best decision before giving the second chance

We all know that Forgiveness is a constant attitude that everyone must learn. It is important for each and every one to control your emotions. We always encounter the word “Forgiveness” but is it everyone deserves the second chance? They are a big difference between the words “Forgiveness” & “Second Chance” that soon I will explain those dissimilarity.

Second Chance

-       Is an opportunity to do change the flaws that have you done in the first opportunity.

-       It is a decision that takes time or process before it was given to you.

-       It is given by a wonderful love of someone.

-       Is a fortunate decision by someone you hurt to change and fix the damage of wrong decisions you made.

Everybody believes that in every move we make have different consequences. In each mistake that we made to someone is counted and sometimes it wasn’t forgotten that soon might lead to broken relationships but is it everyone deserves a second chance? That is the big question behind the damage that someone did to us.

The facts in the word “Forgiveness” …

·         You can forgive but your trust cannot be replaced the same as what it is before.

·         Easy to forgive but hard to forget.

·         Sometimes we forgive someone because we still want them in our life.

·         Forgiveness cannot change the damage or past.

·         Others believe that Forgiveness is the sweetest revenge.

·         Mistakes are always forgivable if one has the courage to admit them. – Bruce Lee

·         It takes a strong person to say SORRY, and an even stronger person FORGIVE.

The facts in the words “Second Chance”…

Ø  Not everyone deserves a second chance depends on the situation.

Ø  Sometimes we need a second chance because weren’t quite ready for the first.

Ø  It takes a smart person and sometimes a wonderful love to give the second opportunity to someone.

Ø  Others believe that second chances are not given to make things right but are given to prove that we could be better after we fall.

Ø  Sometimes second chances are work out better than the first.

Ø  Life’s always gives us second it’s called tomorrow.

Ø  “A lifetime isn't forever, so take the first chance, don't wait for the second one! Because sometimes, there aren't second chances! And if it turns out to be a mistake? So what! This is life! A whole bunch of mistakes! But if you never get a second chance at something you didn't take a first chance at? That's true failure.” 
― C. JoyBell C.

Those are the facts and dissimilarity of the words “Forgiveness” and Second chance”.

In my conclusion to the topic, We must learn how to forgive and keep calm in every bad deeds that someone did for us but don’t let the flame burn you twice unless if the mistakes that he/she did to you is just a simple wound or an accident. Our sorry cannot change the situation but forgiveness enlarges the future and second chances are given to prove that we could be better after all.

Forgiveness won’t change the situation better but it helps us to accept the mistake in the past and make our hearts free from the chains of pain. Always think before you made a decision in giving the second chances because sometimes letting go and moving forward in life are the answer to be happy and satisfied. Once the trust is broken it will never be the same as what it is before. Second chance is only given for those who deserved it and you want it to be still part of your life. Nobody is perfect so try to forgive and forget though we know that it was not easy but it is possible.

Learn to forgive and be thankful in every situation of your life that is the key of happiness but don’t just easily give the second chance to someone. Not everyone who broke your trust is worth to be in that place. Forgiveness is a sign of love and second chances are the freedom. When a door is close there will always be an open door so don’t focus on one side causemany opportunities and better people wait for you. J